Sunday, September 25, 2011

Prayers Needed

I just got a call waking me up to tell me that Lisa Bench, our former Primary president in the former version of our ward, past away last night. She was in her early forties and the mother of 7 beautiful children. Her husband is the bishop of their current ward. I found out last night she was not doing well after complications from a surgery she had the day before.

Last night before I went to bed I prayed earnestly for her and for her family. I had a sense of peace concerning the matter. At the time I thought, "I wonder if this is the kind of peace that means she will get better or the kind like we felt when Camille was in the hospital and we finally prayed to see if it was right to let her go. I guess either way it is the kind of peace that tells me she and her family are in the Lord's hands. What more can we ask for at such a time?"

I feel so heart broken for her family today. Lisa was an amazing woman and fabulous mother. She had a smile that lit up any room she entered. I looked up to her as a role model. She was one of those mothers that I can honestly say I look to in a hope to be a little more like them in one way or another.

If you have a moment, say a prayer for the Bench family today. Say a prayer for daughter who was married just a couple of years ago, for her son who just came home from his mission, for her son who is serving his mission in Guatemala, for her son who is preparing to serve his mission, for her two little daughters and one little son who must now be between the ages of 4 and 8. And then say a prayer for Bishop Bench. Oh how my heart hurts for them.

5 comments:

Just A Mom (Call me JAM for short) said...

What a tremendous loss. My sincerest thoughts and prayers are with the Bench family...

Sue said...

So sorry to hear about your friend, and I will say a prayer for her family.

Anonymous said...

I feel sad to hear that this woman has passed away so young and also leaving behind young children. Praying for everyone involved . . .

mommyme said...

Stephanie,
The Lord works in miraculous ways. I checked into your blog this morning with the intention of looking up a post around the time of Camille's passing.

I remembered that when Camille passed away, someone sent a blanket to the girls for them, to give them comfort and make them feel warm when the pain of losing their sister left them cold.

I wanted to refresh my memory of what this wonderful person did for you so I could do the same for the Bench family. I never imagined how small the world really is to find your blog post about her passing.

I knew the Bench family when they lived in our ward up here in Northern Nevada. Knowing she had young children still at home, I wanted to do something for them.

I pray the Lord will comfort them and help heal their hearts. She was such a beautiful person and this is such a sad loss.

Jonathan Waite said...

mommyme,
Please contact Stephanie at stephaniewaite at gmail.com. She's trying to put together something for them and already has a blanket for them. contact her to coordinate. if anyone else wants to help them, please contact stephanie.